The Dance Of Completion Of Change

As I walked back to our Inn in Kauai I realized I had finally completed something very important, and now in the completion I could choose something new.

Why is it that we put off completing things?

Everybody knows the inertia of not making the one phone call or visit to the one person he or she really wants to talk to. I can remember putting off for months calling my “quality client list” by keeping myself busy with other clients, and administrative tasks.

What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that they will say “yes” or that they will say “no”? Perhaps we are afraid of the completion, because completion means we must and will change. Not completing is a passive form of control.

My Hawaii Story:

I visited Hawaii many years ago on a business trip that stretched out to four months. I fell absolutely head-over-heels in love with it. At the end of the four months, I had to leave. I felt that what happened was due to circumstances “beyond my control”.

I missed it so much I could hardly stand it, and I tried to make plans to return. But, something always got in the way. I chose to let circumstances and people keep me from returning. Always in the back of my mind I thought, “If it wasn’t for _____ fill in the blank-I could live in Hawaii.”

Eleven years from the month I left, I returned for a visit. Note this: it took me 11 years just to go back to visit my favorite place in the world. Does this sound familiar? When I said to myself, “I am visiting no matter what. I am not waiting any longer for the whole world to fall in place before I can move back. I will simply visit and not worry about living there,” I finally got on the plane. After making that first choice towards completion, the rhythm of my life became more graceful and abundant.

A year later, I returned twice for a visit. For 12 years, I had kept part of my life on hold thinking that if people, places, and things would go my way I would live in Hawaii. As I returned for a third visit my thinking had progressed enough to tell myself (and believe it), “You can live in Hawaii if you want to.”

On the first day back, I loved it even more than I remembered, and at the same time realized I didn’t want, or need, to live there. Since I was no longer blaming other people and circumstances for not being able to live in Hawaii I could see clearly that my desire was based on not completing my first visit, and thinking that something was taken from me, “outside of my control.” Although I still want to visit Hawaii as much as possible, it is no longer necessary or desirable for me…my choice…to live there.

It’s like shopping. Have you ever thought to yourself that you really, really, really want new clothes or something for your house or workshop so you finally put the money together, go shopping saying to yourself, “You can spend this money on anything you want”, and realized there was nothing you really wanted to buy? The desire to have what we feel we can’t have gets in the way of living our life.

Sometimes we think we want a relationship we thought have we lost, or someone who doesn’t desire us. Or, we want a new job, or a new place to live. Not completing what we need to do in regard to any or all of these “wants” is a fabulous way to not live our life by blaming circumstances “beyond our control”.

My completing, by taking action, on my desire to move to Hawaii and then realizing that it was no longer my desire; opened a brand new door for me and new choices more wonderful than I could have planned. This is because once something is completed we can move on. It may mean that we do get what we think we want, or it may result in the realization that we don’t want it after all. Which direction it goes is not what is important; what is important is that we complete something, and in that completion, we find freedom.

For me, this completion means that I could now change my mind and decide to live in Hawaii after all – or not, but it was my choice. I could stop blaming people, places, and circumstances for not doing what I want to do.

We all have uncompleted tasks, agendas and desires. No matter how small they seem to us, they are important. They are stopping the natural rhythm and flow of our lives. When we straddle the fence of un-completion, nothing can happen. Once we get off the fence, and begin to take the steps necessary to complete the task, life dream, phone call, book, picture, dream house, or dream life, circumstances and events rush in to help us.

Change is inevitable. Change is going to happen whether we desire it to or not. Best to make change a personal choice than change that results from having to fix things after the wakeup call that results in broken relationships, accidents, illness or any other form of tragedy.

In fact, nothing is ever the same from one minute to the next. Try looking at something and then moving just one foot away and looking again. Does it look the same? No. Personal perspective always determines what we see and personal perspective changes every moment. Change is always happening. We just pretend that it isn’t.

The truth is it takes more effort to not complete and change than it takes to let completion and change happen. Not completing and changing is hard work. Trying not to change is like standing in a flowing stream and trying not to move. How do we do it? In order to not move we have to hang on and make ourselves heavy and rigid.

Completing and change takes faith and courage, just like letting go and flowing with the stream, but it is simple once we start. Completing brings with it a wave of fresh insight and energy and unlimited new blessing we never thought possible and the tools necessary to enjoy and benefit from the resulting change.

Take the time to begin to complete just one unfinished dream or task. Don’t waste time figuring it out which one, just pick one… start somewhere. Take that small step and be ready to see the open doors that have been ready and waiting for you to walk through them. It is the law of the universe to complete and move on, complete and move on, complete and move on. Each cycle is an ever-expanding one. Expanding and emerging is all that is going on. Let’s pick up our feet and dance with the music of completion and change. This is a dance that we all can do and will always result in increased freedom and joy.

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What You Need to Know about People Who Save Life

The portrayal of people as heroes is one of the most common things that happens on movies and TVs today especially because they do something which is good. Because of the kind of work they are doing, any people find them to be very attractive even though they are in the movie shows. Many people are usually attracted to such superheroes especially because of what they are doing and that is the reason why they are attractive even though they are not physically attractive. this is, in fact, the reason why many people like watching movies and TV shows. These are always people who are of noble character but in addition to that, very courageous and for selfless individuals. Another thing you realize is that there are a number of reasons why many people consider them to be this way and this article is going to explain the same. People are always attracted to people who are different generally because many human beings are not good people. The kind of knowledge they have to save the life of another individual is what many people get attracted to but in addition to that, the kind of selflessness and humanity they have.

When you look at society today, people are always very much respectful to lifeguards, doctors, and even firemen because of what they are doing. Many people consider these individuals to be very appealing even when they speak and this is the reason why they are very different. The major reason is that not very many people know how to save a life or to do what these individuals to and that is why they are considered to be very important. Though the process of getting the knowledge is not difficult, there is a lot of respect that goes to the people who really go-ahead and ensures that they have enough knowledge to save a person’s life. The different dangerous conditions that people usually find themselves in can be difficult to deal with when you do not have the knowledge, for example, you will need to have the knowledge on how to deal with different situations through different techniques. There are very many examinations that you will have to do, online classes and also the answering of practical questions. Another thing you will notice is that there are quite a number of instructors available and when you go to the institutions, they are going to provide you with enough information. The availability of people to help you is one of the biggest advantages.

Not all of these individuals usually wear caps and for this reason, they may not necessarily be what you see in the movies. Being motivated about such things will always be recommended for every individual.

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Make it Complete!

There you are looking back over the year. You are thinking about all that you accomplished and notice some of the things you didn’t accomplish. There is the little pain in your stomach and a thought of “If only I had done that.” It is normal to feel this way. When we look at past desires that haven’t come into the physical form it is easy to feel a sense of regret. The only rule here is to make that regret complete! Yes, you can make the desire or goal complete in the New Year!

Making your goal complete is bringing it forward to move it into physical form. Sometimes when we have goals we make them huge and really far out there. Just because you didn’t see your desire manifest this past year does not mean it isn’t on its way. There is a Universal Law called the Law of Gender. This law states that for anything to come into form it must first go through a gestation period. Some call this law the Law of Gestation. Gestation periods bring to life the completed physical form. It is simple to see in the case of pregnancy. Everyone knows with a normal pregnancy it takes about 9 months to grow and then birth the baby. The same is true with your goals, dreams, and desires!

Goals, dreams, and desires must also go through a developmental stage in order to become complete. The first step is to know where you are and the second step is to know where you are going. The how part comes as the process moves. Sometimes you will have a crystal clear vision of how to help your desires become complete and see them in your physical reality. The times that you aren’t so clear can be the sticky point. This is the time when most people get discouraged and start to give up on what it is they want. See the Universe is working hard to bring that desire to you and it takes time for it to reach you. Your patience is the key to making it complete!

Patience is a skill and it must be developed. Some ways to helping with the skill and ensuring that your dreams will manifest and become complete are to trust, know, relax, and have fun! Trusting that you deserve what you want is number one. Many people have a hard time with trusting that they deserve anything. Now you may be thinking that you deserve everything but do you really TRUST it at your core? Think about it, think about times in your life that you really wanted something and you didn’t get it. What went through your mind? What goes through your mind now about that situation? The more you get clear with this the more you can uncover beliefs that are holding you back!

When you are holding yourself back you do not believe that your dream is going to become complete and take on its physical form. Believing is one step below knowing. Knowing is where in your core you KNOW that what you want is on its way. Nobody or nothing could tell you anything different. Now ask yourself, do you know that your dream will complete itself and you will see it come to fruition? Is there anything that could change your mind about it? Is there any situation that could move you in a different direction? Remember we are getting clear so we can become complete and see our dreams from the moment it was conceived to the moment it is birthed into reality. Be extremely honest with yourself.

Next, relax in your trust and knowing. You can keep your focus on what you are creating and check in to see how you feel. Are you tense all the time? Are you worried? Are you pushing to “make” things work? If so think of some ways to relax and let your goal move to its completed form. Take walks daily, get sun, meditate and calm your thoughts. Let your body flow with your day. Really do you want to be all worked up about your life or do you want to enjoy your life? You can do either but when it comes to completely your goals wouldn’t you rather do it while having fun?

Which brings us to the last point and that is to make it complete by having FUN! How are you bringing your dreams into life in a fun manner? Are you engaging others with your ideas? Are you creating new ways to bring your goal to life? Are you laughing while you work? Are you feeling inspired? Check in with yourself again and be honest. This is feedback and you can adjust what you are doing to make it more exciting. When you are feeling awesome about something people can feel that. They start enjoying your goal with you. They start to want it for you as well. Imagine what that kind of support would do for you in regards to making your dreams complete!

To make your dreams, ideas, and goals complete remember to check in with yourself. Be honest and find where you are with your emotions. Are you trusting, knowing, relaxing, and having fun? What areas need some attention? What areas are you doing awesome in? You have time so keep going. Now is your time to make it complete!

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